How to cope with a breakup?

So today i broke up with my bf, and i thought his reaction was gono be asking why and stuff, but he said ';oh yea i was gono tell u the same thing'; i was very relieved to have done this because he was a terrible bf and i keep thinkin of all the bad things he did to me (threatened he was gono think about breaking up with me since i didnt wana take my pants off while we were hookin up in his car), but now i feel extremely sad and confused as to why i would ever feel this way...i need some words of encouragement people..thanks..How to cope with a breakup?
Hey there,





No matter how much it hurts right now, it will get better. A year from now, you will wonder why you ever dated him to begin with, and laugh at it all, because you'll be on to someone new and this will all be in the past.





Sometimes, we need to date the toads and have our hearts broken so that we can appreciate it when the really great guy / relationship comes along.





think of it this way: you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. You're one frog closer to finding the right one!How to cope with a breakup?
Even if you are happy with a break-up and know it is the best thing to do it still makes you sad. You are walking away from any potential you had lingering in your heart and your head about this person. And you are leaving a person that you shared your life with, good or bad. His reaction also confirmed what you already knew about things, but it still hurts a little nonetheless. Totally normal and you will be ok.
A break up is hard even if you initiate it. You feel discouraged, or like a failure, and wonder if you will find someone else. You have lost a big part of you life, and the way you spent your free time. So now you have to figure out what to do without all the attention. That is hard too, even if you know it is for the best. So plan some fun activities with friends, get a new hair-do, clean out all the junk he gave you, or take up a new hobby. Change a lot of things about your life, and you will feel like a new person.
Just stay busy, and try not to think about it. Find out who in the world you are , and go out and be that person you were meant to be. ';With faith in the right hand and courage in the left, we are not alone.'; We were given two eyes, two ears, two legs, but one heart. The goal is to find the other heart. There are plenty of good men out there just waiting to pop into your life. Good Luck and God Bless!!!
TIME.. i know everyone says it, but it's true! just takes time to heal, for me after getting dumped by my first bf it took me awhile, then i realized how much i love being single. 2 years later i found my true love! i hope you feel better!!
you are so much better with out him!! your a good peson. he just wanted to take advantage of you. someone who will value you will come and you will know what love really is and how it really feels. take care guard your heart and keep your head up.
Move On, He's Not Worth It.. Think About All The Bad Stuff


He Did To You Again.. Then It'll Just Make You Move On Faster %26lt;33 Sounds Like He Only Wanted Sex...








You Deserve Better... Stay Up Homie!
heres some words of encouragement...


f u ck him...u did the right thing and i bet he didnt even wanna end ur relationship he just wanted to cover it up...good job now just move on and dont lose sleep over it its not worth it
Music helps better


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4HKps3r9iE%26amp;feature=channel_page
you shouldn't feel sullen after getting away from a jerk... you should feel releived. You did the right thing. Find a better guy, sweetie. There are tons of them around!
well first of all dont eat alot o **** cuz u dont want him to be glad nhe broke up with u. i would just make him wish he wasnt such a bad bf. plus you'll find another guy probably nicer and hotter =]
get really drunk, get into a fight, sleep all day, find a hobbie, work out, or find someone else, be a rebound girl
First of all, breaking up itself can be incredibly hard - no matter how much of a jerk the guy was. So relax and take your time getting over it. The fact that your boyfriend expressed his desires to break up with you as well will of course make you feel like ****. It means that he could have been wanting to break up with you for a while.


However, you must realize that his words were probably an act. If he wanted to break up with you, he would have done it. By stating that he also wanted to break up - he is pretending that he's not hurt by your actions. He's also probably a little embarrassed about being broken up with - some people feel the need to be the one doing the ';breaking up';


If he made you feel worse, forget it. By the sound of it, you seem to have made a good move in dumping the guy. There are better men out there so there's no point in wasting your time on someone who's not worth it.
hey sweety, please don't feel alone because I'm suffering with you. I'm inlove with my boyfriend....and after one year of wholehearted dedication and efforts to make it work he really broke my heart...Im so hurt that this time I don't even know how will I going to recover...I can't breath and eat and can't sleep...... always keep in mind that we can't train a boy...what you and I need is a grown man that will make us feel love and worthy of our times. When I miss my ex- I think about all the bad things he'd done to hurt me....and I on the other hand loved him so much...that I let and allowed him to hurt me....I didn't and couldn't see it at the time....we just broken up for about a week....and each time I miss him....I would look back and think about the bad times....yes, there's good times but it was more bad than good...and sometimes you just haveto do the same.....if a man wants you....he'll find his way....he a man don't want to stay and make it work....we can't do a thing....and if a man don't see his floss and faults after many times we tell them how much they've hurt us....then the are not for us.....I'm here suffering with you....remember....we will not DIE.....we will live for the better and there's a good man out there for you and I....so keep your head up ok :) go to myspace....and add me as your friend....you will learn many things from me and I'll learn many from you....we will be okay.....


my username at myspace is : Mulanvue.............just search under Mulanvue and click on the blog thing and add me......goodluck dear....