hey everyone, well saturday night my best friend for 2 years n g/f for sumwhat like a year left me. Iv done everything possible to get her outa my mind, iv put away pics and deleted her number. I tried to go out but it juss wont help at all, since i have no money at all to go do anything cuz im laid off my options are limited. She was txtin me earlier sayin she misses me and she will never forget me and juss sayin great things but now she juss wont txt back and i know sometins up but im juss tryin to get ideas how to get around this. Iv hung out with friends, iv took long baths, i actually cried which i rarly do.I cant eat, n when i do its sumtin very small and i thro it back up, im literally fightin with myself to hang on.iv had a huge headache since then n it wont go away. I cant move away cuz my whole family lives here, n since she was my Best friend i have NO ONE to talk to. We done EVERYTHING together, and i mean everything.Its so hard:/ so any ideas?How to cope with a breakup after uv done everything possible.?
don'tisten to people that are telling you to talk to her. . .there are only giving you false hope. I know hope is what you want right now and I now it hurts like crazy man. This is just stage you go trough after you break up with someone and she went through this phase already, when shewas texting you that was another phase. Here goes the list of phases.
Shock is the first stage. It is accompanied by disbelief and numbness.
Denial follows quickly, crying ';I don't believe it,'; or ';It can't be.';
Bargaining. is your promise that ';I'll be so very good that maybe I can wake up and find that it isn't so. I'll do all the right things if only....';
Guilt. is painful and hard to deal with. This is when one says over and over, ';If only I had...'; or ';If only I had not...'; This is a normal feeling and ultimately it may be solved by stating, ';
Anger. is another big factor which seems to be necessary in order to face the reality . We must all heal in our own ways. Anger is a natural stage through which we must pass. Your anger at your
Depression is a stage that comes and goes. Knowing this, be prepared to give yourself time to heal. Resignation is a late stage. It comes when finally you accept the truth.
Acceptance and hope!
P.S. Giving yourself false hope ony makes this process take longer and even may cause you to go back instead of forwards. You'll make it through man, I promise you that.How to cope with a breakup after uv done everything possible.?
u might still need sometime to get over it. dont worry you will get over it and who knows and the future she might come back to u
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you need to talk to her, and tell her how you feel obviously she feels the same way so why don't you just work things out, and maybe things will get better for you
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