How do you deal with a breakup?

i recently went through a breakup with my boyfriend. and i really don't know how to get over it. we were best friends before this, we both came out to each other, and he was the person that made me feel so comfortable about something that i was so ashamed of. he made me more open and accepting of myself.


he was out but i wasn't. we dated in secret for a month and then i came out. two months later we broke up. he said he really does love me but he ended the breakup because he didn't want it to get to the point where we couldn't be friends anymore. there wasn't really a bad reason for the breakup, but i can't get over it. i understand his reasons for the breakup but i learned to fall in love with him and that is one thing i truly that is hard for me to get over. he wants to get back together but he said that in reality, he knows it won't happen again. how can i cope with this. he hides his emotions but when we are alone he tells me how much it pains him as well.How do you deal with a breakup?
You cope with it by coping. You move on by moving on. You get over it by GETTING OVER IT. In other words, there is no ';how'; involved. There is no method of getting over someone, you just get over them as time goes by. It will HELP you to find someone new, but it won't erase all the feelings you have, only time will do that.How do you deal with a breakup?
just act normal and be nice to him.
Sounds rough, there's no sure way to just get over someone. Sometimes getting distance from them helps you to think more clearly. Also the 2 old adages that are most appropriate here are ';Time heals all wounds'; and ';It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all';. Sorry, can't help much other than that, good luck though, hope it goes better for you from now.

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