Breakups how to cope?

i posted a question about 3 weeks ago when i had split with my girlfriend of 4 and half years and how she had met someone else, i had no contact for about 6 weeks with her then found out she was seeing someone and it hurt, she rang me to say meet for a drink and and chat so i did she says she still loves me but the relationship was going nowhere because of me not committing we even came close to having sex,,,, all i want is for her to be happy which i thought she was, she said her new boyfreind says the most nice things to her so was pleased for her but was hurting inside but a couple of weeks ago she rang to say she had a problem her boyfriend said he just wanted friendship and to be single so i went round to comfort her as i still had strong feelings for her a coulple of days later we had sex i never thought that would happen after her being with someone else, now i have told her i love her. but guess what her ex rang to say he made a mistake and now i think shes going back thereBreakups how to cope?
though question, none break-ups are easy, try the following if you still love her, don't give up yet, you were intimate that may mean something, be friends with her, try to beet the other guy by outsmarting him, get nice things for her, ask her what are the commitments she's looking for that you don't have, take a step at a time if you still love her, if in four years haven't told her you love her isn't this too late, or you can just move on if she comes back to you you're in luck, maybe you know for next time, relationships come and go hopefully one day you meet the right one.Breakups how to cope?
I know how you feel this was one chapter from my book of misery, but it was my ex husband that played this game. OK the low down she is keeping you on the back burner just in case Mr wonderful does not cut it! I think if you love her set her free, remember if you love something set it free if it comes back to you it is yours if it does not then it never was! I think you need to take a good look at this relationship and ask yourself do you want to keep being the one she calls to pick up when she is not happy in her relationship or do you want to be just with someone who wants YOU and to be in a relationship with YOU? I think this is a competition between you and the new guy that has you going see who wins the prize, well he to tell you if that is a prize you'll never be happy she is a player and don't care about anyone but herself is this the kind of person you want to love? I hope you find true happiness and love and I am here to warn you your not going to find it there! Good luck you need a good woman like I need a good man!
please move on. she is not ready to be with anyone. she is a confused little girl. and why would you want to be with someone who is not sure they want to be with you.