What goes on in the head of a bipolar, OCD, ADHD, and chronic liar(all diagnosed) during a breakup?

were both 18, i know thats young but we dated for 2 years. for a half of our relationship he was deeply depressed.he was diagnosed with being a chronic liar, having OCD, and ADHD,%26amp;lastly, depression.he began taking antidepressants just a few weeks before he broke up with me%26amp;it caused his personality2do a complete 180?he broke up with me impulsively, then asked meback out just days later then broke up with me again..all in the same week?ppl, including myself r beginning2think that he is bipolar.just days after the breakup,he told every1%26amp;any1 how he was going2get ';laid'; (even tho we never had sex)%26amp;then i found out he lied about his virginity(for2years!)the thing that hurts the most tho, is that i am a very strong person, naturally,b.c i had2be, in order to help him cope through his depression(even when he lost all of his friends)..he treated me horribly while we were 2gether, but now that its over, i feel sad that he is gone..help me2understand his behavior, is it possible he misses me?What goes on in the head of a bipolar, OCD, ADHD, and chronic liar(all diagnosed) during a breakup?
Wow, I know this must be very hard on you, but one thing you have to know and learn and it is hard to learn is that you can't change or really help anybody, they have to change and help themselves. The only real help you can give is to love and listen. That is it. Sounds like you may be the type of person who is considered a caregiver. It is not bad to be one, I am, but it has a lot of lessons to be learned to be a healthy care give and not to be someone who enables people. The first lesson is to take care of you, do what is best for you, if your not ok, then things are not ok. Remember also you deserve the best. Sweetie, he does not sound even close. It is hard when you love someone or something to let it go. but just because you love it does not make it right. I love food, and boy I have to really watch over eating because it is not good for my health, drug addicts love drugs, but that is not healthy. When you love a person who is unhealthy, it only brings you to their level. You are a smart girl, a strong girl. The best plan of action is to let go, give him time to get help and refuse to date him as long as he is having these severe problems, mood swings ect. Do not accept a spoken apology, make him prove it over time, for stability does not happen over night, good luck and God bless you and remember there is someone out their who will love you, respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Just put some distance between you and you ex, hold your head up, and don't let him get any reaction out of you, act as if you are in control and do not care what he does, and I bet all the spratic behaviour will either ease up or he will freak out and someone will get him help.What goes on in the head of a bipolar, OCD, ADHD, and chronic liar(all diagnosed) during a breakup?
Since he was diagnosed with being a ';chronic liar'; how do you know any of the other BS is accurate.
move on girl dont be a martyre, he will only give u grief, he will be out their bonking anyone he can, its not that hes a bad person its just he has a chemical imbalance, b his friend but find yrself a new man yr young plenty of opportunities, take em while u can
You must understand firstly that you can't do much to help but you can help your self by being a friend to people like this. However you MUST not get sucked in. This can cost you your own mental state. These people need medical help and probably for very long time if not for life in some way or the other. Understand just that people with this condition are almost 98% not aware or in control of their feelings or thoughts. They are confused themselves, unbalanced, lost and tend to hit extreme highs and lows due to chemical imbalance in their brain. This is not intentional behavior on their part but you don't need to suffer either. Only professional and all around friends and family support can help. Don't take it against him. Just understand that you may need more stable situation for your future than what this person may ever be able to offer. Don't forget your self!