i'm so sorry you're having to go through this right now...i went through a breakup similar to yours (5 years, he also cheated...with my best friend) two years ago.
i have been where you are, and i understand how completely devastating a breakup like you and i have gone through can be. i have also experienced the range of emotions that you have experienced. again, i'm so sorry you're having to go through this...but coming from someone who has been where you are, it truly will get better- i promise!
i know the words alone don't help. i remember that feeling when people would try to console me. i know that right now you feel like it's a long road until you feel happy and over him; however, YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN HIM. I'm sure that you know this, but i'm also sure that your heart is not comforted by this. i can not emphasize enough how much you did not deserve what he did to you by cheating on you.
I once heard, after my breakup, that it takes approximately half of the time you were with someone to psychologically be completely over them. I think that there is some value to this theory, in that I know it takes a long time to get over someone who was at one time a HUGE part of your life; however, I have come to realize that you can move on without being completely over someone. It will take time, and it won't be an easy road...but you will move on a little bit at a time. you will be okay, you're a strong %26amp; beautiful woman.
please find a little comfort in the knowledge that there is, WITHOUT A DOUBT, someone that is absolutely perfect for you and will value you and will not disrespect you by breaking your heart. i'm excited for you to meet that person! try to enjoy your independence %26amp; experience everything YOU want to in life until that person comes along!Breakup advice?
dang im sorry for your lost.
well its not your lost its his. He cheated so dont sweat him. i know its hard to get over him but you must try. You deserve better and there are so much more out there. there are 3 billion guys out there, and you know what one of them might even be the one that you have been looking for. Its going to be hard. Cry if you must and drink if you must, but dont hurt yourself, ok, try to be string and move on slowly. its does not take 4 years lol dont trip. look thikn of it this way someone is out there dying to treat you much better.....
Take care
Andrew Juiino (love Guru)
There is no set time frame for getting over someone. It's different for everyone and every situation. I think the important thing for you to realize is that you have worth. Do things that make you feel good about you. It's such a cliche to say that time heals all wounds, but you'll find that it's true. Don't worry about finding someone while you are still hurting, just focus on yourself and realize how much better off you are without someone that you can't trust.
i don't think you ever get over someone you love. all i can tell you is it will take time. i know that sounds awful i bet you hear it all the time. but it is true your too hurt right now to see things any different. after time you'll come to see your a wonderful person and you deserve great things. i'm sure your going to find someone. give yourself time to heal. don't jump into anything serious because someone will get hurt. let time pass and yes it will be hard to trust but if he's wants you he'll understand and work with you on it.
It sounds like you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself to get into the next relationship. Enjoy being single and exploring who you are and it will amazing when someone just drops into your life at the right time.
8 year relationship = 4 year recovery period.
youve got alot of time to kill.
i hope you like wine, cause youll be drinking alot of it.
Say Goodbye, ho
I will tell you, what my friends have told me, when I was terribly heartbroken.
At first, you'll won't want to believe it, or may think it's all untrue.
But after you're mostly over him, you'll see why it is.
There are guys out there who don't cheat, and who will be into you.
Take this opportunity to have fun exploring new people.
Learn to understand people and learn to read them.
It will take along time for those memories to fade. But on the bright side, it should be easier for you to move on, because he did something terrible to you. You deserve better. And you will learn to understand this.
You will move on, and take this opportunity to be free and be even more independent!
You will have lots in the open road ahead of you!
Be proud! And don't take it for granted, that you have a new day every day ahead of you, to make change, and make for new possibilities!
Take care!
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