How should i cope with a breakup like this?

My boyfriend of 6 months recently broke up with me. It was that kind of break up that we both didnt want to but had to do it. I was the one who didnt want it more, he broke up with me b'cuz he said he is too young for a relationship(he is 21 i am 22). We never had any problems, our relationship was perfect everything was going just perfect. I dont get him he says i have feelings for you but don't want to go deep cuz i am afraid and he decided to end it. I dont know how to react he still wants to see me but doesnt want a relationship( i guess cuz the sex was the best). Im really heart broken i dont know whether to accept his behaviour or just forget him forever.. i truly love him, ive never clicked with a guy before like i do with him... btw im his ';first official longest girlfriend'; he has ever had, he used to be a player and he wants to go to his old roots... Is this how people in love behave? or am i just old fashioned? Should i see him or should i ignore him.. i've done my best for the relationship to be perfect but i guess ive done wrong :(How should i cope with a breakup like this?
You didnt do anything wrong, but since your so seemingly upset over this and you obviously still have feelings for him I wouldnt advise having a friends with benefits relationship with him if thats what hes suggesting. I'd take a few days off from him. Be less available and make less contact with him. Find time now to go out with friends and have fun to keep your mind off things. This guy might soon find out hes making a mistake and if this is meant to be it will happen later or else he might come crawling back. Anyhow, just be friends, but steer clear of getting intimate with him for your own good. If you continue to just hook up, detaching yourself from him will only be harder. Good Luck.How should i cope with a breakup like this?
You haven't necessarily been wrong. He's not ready to give up his wandering. More than likely he's already been wandering. He wants to continue seeing you because the sex was good. He wants to be free of you so he can continue looking for sex. Sounds crazy doesn't it. Sadly that's the way some men are. Stay friends but close the heavenly gates to him for now. Reserve that for the special someone who wants to be there forever.
He is letting you down easy, the truth is while you thought everything was perfect, just perfect, it wasn't He just wasn't that into you as you were into him. Let it go and don't worry about him, he will be just fine. Six months with a guy is nothing.
heres the thing if your guy doesnt want to go too serious, then dont force him. I am 25 and married to a guy who is 22, so age is no problem. dont push him to commit, if he wants a low key relationship and you dont, then its probably better you broke up. but if you still want to see each other then keep it simple. dont rush, meet up a few nights a week, but give each other space...





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He was not ready and did not have the balls to admit it to you. So, he used you as the scape goat. Sorry, but that is how some men are. I was married to a man for 11 years that never has the courage to admit it was him making those decisions. He put the blame on me. That kept friction going with his kids and his family. Guys like this are called manipulators.
I'm sorry you got hurt, but unfortunately thats the way it goes sometimes. you will find someone else, forget about this jerk. at least he had enough gumption to be truthful (somewhat). he didn't cheat on you, he didn't beat you, etc. just live and learn, but don't be afraid to fall in love again, you'll only regret it. good luck to you.
i would not see him anymore. he does not want to be with u he just wants to screw u. so do u really just want a man to use u. no matter how hot he is it is not worth it. move on tell him that if he does not want to be with u for real then u r not having sex either.
No one is perfect, no relationship is perfect. There were problems, or you'd both be together. This is all a part of growing up (which hurts like hell!) and relationships.
he doesn't love u. this sounds cruel but a player is never in love with anyone but himself. so let him go. u deserve better. hes not worth the hurt.
The sad truth is, he is likely looking to have his cake and eat it too!! A guy would not let you go if he really loved you. He is looking to have sex with you or to be with you when he does not have anything better. The main reason guys do this is because they think they are missing something elese out there! So they will not take a chance on being tied up with someone . You will either be nice to him, but stay away or you will let him use you!! You are the only one who can control this situation. Should you decide to be with him, you are making your own bed. Make no mistake he will not respect you if you are there for him when ever he wants you to be!!!!!