A breakup w/ some1 who is diagnosed w.OCD,ADHD,Bipolar&is diagnosed a chronic liar?whats goin through his head

were both 18, i know thats young but we dated for 2 years. for a half of our relationship he was deeply depressed.he was diagnosed with being a chronic liar, having OCD, and ADHD,%26amp;lastly, depression.he began taking antidepressants just a few weeks before he broke up with me%26amp;it caused his personality2do a complete 180?he broke up with me impulsively, then asked meback out just days later then broke up with me again..all in the same week?ppl, including myself r beginning2think that he is bipolar.just days after the breakup,he told every1%26amp;any1 how he was going2get ';laid'; (even tho we never had sex)%26amp;then i found out he lied about his virginity(for2years!)the thing that hurts the most tho, is that i am a very strong person, naturally,b.c i had2be, in order to help him cope through his depression(even when he lost all of his friends)..he treated me horribly while we were 2gether, but now that its over, i feel sad that he is gone..help me2understand his behavior, is it possible he misses me?A breakup w/ some1 who is diagnosed w.OCD,ADHD,Bipolar%26amp;is diagnosed a chronic liar?whats goin through his head
Honey, you need to get on with your life.


This guy has so many problems that he probably doesn't need to be in a relationship, either. He needs to devote his energy to getting healthier.


Even if you love this man, are you ready for the problems he has now to continue and possibly worsen? He could drain you of all ability to care for yourself after he has let you take care of him, and it can take years to recover from this kind of relationship--physically, mentally, and financially..


At your age, you need to be focused on completing your education and developing a career.


Why not speak to a professional person who works with people like your BF and get their opinion?


I honestly think you already know what is best for you, or you would never have posted--so, Good Job.


Think about it, please.


Good luck.A breakup w/ some1 who is diagnosed w.OCD,ADHD,Bipolar%26amp;is diagnosed a chronic liar?whats goin through his head
LET GO THERES NO USE WASTE A TYME!

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First, I think he ';lied'; to you about being diagnosed a ';chronic liar';, what is that??? He is, apparently, a chronic liar but I doubt he was diagnosed as such from a professional.





You are young and clearly don't need these kinds of problems. You need to run as far away from this guy as you can and stay away. He has way too much going on and you cannot ';fix'; him.





The on again, off again, all in one week is insane by itself.





I don't see how he could be thinking about you when he has all of these issues. He don't know what he doing from one minute to the next for himself, let alone, thinking about someone else.





Count the break up from the guy , a ';blessing'; and move on to bigger and better things.





Medication is going to change him but not necessarily for the better. sorry :(
Don't try to figure it out. Just move on with your life. It didn't work out, now shut the door and live your own life.
Ok, if you want the peoples take on this guy, her is mine. So he gets on some meds, and he breaks up with you, probably a side effect of living without meds so long. Meds will cause one to change alot. He probably asked you out again as a way of toying with you. But honestly if this guy is a chronic liar, what makes you think you can believe any thing he says including his diagnosis. Plus, if he really had all these mental health issues, they wouldn't just be treating the depression.


If you have true concerns over his behavior, or what he might do to himself or someone else, you need to voice that to someone who can help him. If he is ADHD and bipolar, he will probably miss you for all of 2 seconds, get depressed about it, then get instantly distracted, then go through a manic phase over all of this.


Personally, I think someone has been pulling your chain for 2 years. I mean really a guy who isn't a virgin and not having sex for 2 years. Either he is lying about not being a virgin, or getting some on the side.


I am not trying to be mean. I am being realistic, for your sake. I know these things because I have spent at least 5 hours a month with a psychiatrist for treatment of my own children who suffer from ADHD, and one of them is Bi-polar. the other suffers from depression and Post tramatic stress disorder.


Believe me, if he is a chronic liar, he has probably lied about alot of things, including feelings. He left you, so leave him behind and move on to someone who is stable and deserves a loving and caring woman.
Why would you even care if he misses you. He mistreated you and his behavior is unpredictable. You're better of with someone else.
this is not my place to pry...however, I would have to bet that your chances of happiness in life would be more likely if you left this guy and married the first man you saw other than him....
stay away from him hes ****** up you can find some one normal to love and who loves u
Oh I've been there...





Girl you need to get out and away from him as quick as possible. I know that you care about him, and you want to help him, but you really can't.





There's mental issues there that are beyond his control and that's not something you can deal with nor understand.





He needs professional help and I wouldn't be alone with him if you can help it.
Huh ?? Are you sure you know his exact diagnosis? Never heard of a person diagnosed as a ';chronic liar.'; Maybe it is you who is the liar and not telling us the truth.