Friday, August 20, 2010

How to overcome a breakup with boyfriend -yesterday?

We been dating 6 months. We told each other we loved all the time. I found out he's been emotionally cheating on me with his ex girlfriend during the day. Calling her 5-6 day saing they are just ';friends';. Now he finally admitted she misses him and wants him back. But He does not want her back. But.... he broke up with me for going through his phone. Our relatinship wouldnt work anyways because of trust issues. But Im so incredibly hurt and betrayed and empty. I know God and Jesus help me and time heals but this hurts. He just called me to say he wants his stuff bak. How do I cope?How to overcome a breakup with boyfriend -yesterday?
of course your hurt, its only natural. its part of the maturing process, this happens to everyone, just be glad u found him out early on rather than years later.everything happens for a reason although we don't always understand the reason. try talking to your minister, or someone at your church, even a therapist. time does heal, but theres also a grieving process to go through. sure your ego and self worth hurt right now, but its not about u, its about him being a cheater who doesn't know what he wants. he also does want her back, or he would still be with u, its not about your going through his phone like he says.How to overcome a breakup with boyfriend -yesterday?
Well, you were both wrong, him for being in contact like that with his ex, you for snooping. Definitely trust issues there. That's no way to start out.





So...you learn your lesson from this (about snooping), pick yourself up, dust yourself off, give yourself a few weeks or a month to settle down, then get back out there.
By being strong and telling yourself over and over again he is not worth it, he cheated, whichever way you look at it, he is a cheat.


You are worth more than this, have some early nights and the days will pass sooner.


You will get over this, be strong and move on - girl power !!
damn thats gotta hurt. i think u should go with your friends hang out, go clubbin, get ur mind off him, Entertain yourself you know. Bt when u give him his sht back cut it all up burn it, break it etc just for playn wit ur heart =)
one day at a time.. You had trust issues otherwise you would have not been through his phone... and he hasn't gotten over his ex. So take it one day at a time and you will see every day gets better...
well you will find a new boy and he will not cheat on you





dont worry you will get over the creep
find another boyfriend, you'll be laughing about it in a month
hes a loser, u dont need him. get a new bf

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