How To cope with an one sided breakup?

In a man woman intimate friendship, there always is a party more involved than the other. At the time of inevitable breakup, what does the more involved party do to make the letting go easy.





Letting go is not easy, but only for ONE party in any breakup. The more involved party.


In any association, one side is usually more involved than the other, otherwise it would be too robotic. (actually one of them may not be involved at all). So letting go is difficult only for the party which is emotionally invested in it. For the other, its no problem at all.


She says I should see a shrink because I am still talking about something/someone which is long gone. I too think its a personality disorder of some kind to not let go when ';quits'; has already been announced. (though not as serious that warrants seeing a shrink)


The thing I want to know is, why I cannot be like her? Why do I have to cling to her wake? I HAVE been doing foolish things in order to replace her out of my system, but all remedies only provide momentary relief. I analyzed, my problem is related to this feeling of being rejected, but THIS too should have a solution, right?


What Can one do to resume a normal life again?





How To cope with an one sided breakup?
It's really difficult to move on when you're still hooked! My ex still can't talk to me and that was 12 years ago! But you can't make someone feel more for you than they do, the more needy you are, the faster they will run! Try finding a new hobby or sport! Get some counselling. Get out there and look for a replacement.....just don't compare them to your ex!


Rejection of this kind should almost be looked upon as a bereavement. It's going to take time!!How To cope with an one sided breakup?
Well, all I can say is, one cannot love to order. In the first place, you should really check out with the girl if she has ever taken you seriously. She may have lots of casual dates but only 2 serious boyfriends before she got married. If you were one of her casual dates, you can't blame her at all if she needs to go for someone she really likes. 鐖辨儏鏄笉鍙互鍕夊己鐨勩€俌ou will have to get on with your life. Move on and forget her completely. Good luck to you.
For one you can stop writing rants about why it hurts so bad, and you can stop talking about it, and try to distract yourself from thinking about it. How long ago did you break up?





Spend time with friends, find new hobbies that have nothing to do with her and then in time you'll move on. That's how it works for everyone.





Oh and don't be so jaded as to think that all relationships are one sided. In fact most healthy relationships that last aren't they are very much involved on both ends.





Good luck