Is it a good idea to make my Ex-girlfriend jealous by getting another girl right away?

She was my first kiss and my first girlfriend. She broke my heart 2 days ago. I'm still crying over it. It's a terrible situation and I regret anything I did wrong, but apparently her feelings changed. She says that our personalities don't match, but I know I was acting weird last week, we were both frusterated. Then when I decided to tell her what was bothering me, she told me how she didn't like That side of me that she saw (This pissed me off because I don't have 2 sides. She used to love me, and this is small trivial stuff). It was our first arguement, and I thought we were getting something accomplished by talking about it, but she decided to end it.





There's another girl who I used to have a little bit of a crush on last year, and I was almost contemplating (don't freak out, I probably won't do it) asking HER out. I'm pretty sure she would say yes, I know that she likes me.





I'm trying to cope with my breakup (I think they call it 'rebound') and I need something to focus on, someone to make me feel special, someone I can kiss, but it won't be my Ex. I feel terrible as I think about the other girl and how I could possibly be Using her.





But would it make my Ex jealous to see my facebook change to Me In A Relationship and a picture of both of us together. Would it affect her? I've thaught about it and I feel like I want to either Hurt her like she hurt me, or Make her realize she made a mistake and come back to me.





Don't worry, I'm not going to use anybody. I am just in some deep sh*t, and a thought came in my head.


Thanks.Is it a good idea to make my Ex-girlfriend jealous by getting another girl right away?
If you think you and your ex might get back together any time soon, don't do anything. If you get back together it will only cause problems for you in the future. If you have no intensions of getting back together and you want to make her jealous hooking up with another girl is the way to do it. If the goal is peeve off your ex maybe you should give yourself a minute to get past all that before you ask out another girl. You don't need to rush into something if you still have feelings for ex.Is it a good idea to make my Ex-girlfriend jealous by getting another girl right away?
If you ask the other girl out your ex is going to KNOW that you are trying to make her jealous. Plus, no matter how you are feeling about your ex dont do the other girl wrong to get back at her.








The best thing you can do in this situation is talk to your ex about this and try to resolve it.
sooo whats your question then?


Dont do it unless your asking her out soley bc you like her not to make someone jealous becasuse then ull be in some deepshit later on when the other girl finds out you only went out with her to make your ex jealous.
If she broke up with you, then she has most likely moved on and i wouldn't worry about it. Go ahead and do what makes you happy. Maybe she will get a bf that she is happy with too.
of course it'll make her jealous. but it will also affect how she sees you and ruin any chance that you might have of getting back together. please think twice before doing this.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO鈥?WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU
You can't make someone love you again or change their mind - and by playing childish games and trying to make your ex jealous, you show even more the lack of maturity you possess.


The best thing to do, is spend time with friends and family - keep yourself busy. Time will make the pain go away
No, of course not. I'm happy your not going to do this. Its a bad idea. When guys do this they expect for the girl to be running back to them seeing how much they ';need'; them. Wrong! Girls just get mad at it or even sad. When they get mad, its not going to help. If they get sad there not going to go back to you, there going to go to one of their friends for advice. And usually that advice does not help the guy. It's probably going to be something like revenge. Maybe even using another person to make you jealous!





Plus, your using someone else and it's not fair to them. Then you just put your self in a position f a jerk, and give your self a bad reputation.
The way I would look at it would be that if she doesn't like you anymore, then why would she be annoyed at the fact that you are going out with another person.... after all, it could seem to her like you are moving on and accepting what has happened.





This could lead to yous still being able to be mates, but at the same time you still have someone you can love.
That is, in fact, using someone. There is no way for us to know whether it would affect her, but either way, it isn't a good idea. Give yourself some time to get over her. If you two were mean to be, you can try to reconnect later,. You're not thinking straight now because you're hurt. Trying to hurt her is not going to make anyone with logic or self-esteem go back to you.
no, cause you dont want to fight fire with fire and all it will do is make a bigger fire plus if you do try to get another girl u might end up breakin all 3 of yalls hearts(ex gf, gf,and you)i would jus try to move on u know like goin to the mall wit friends ,and talk to girls ,goin to parties and then surely when bur ex gf sees that you moved on she will surely want you back:)