Monday, August 16, 2010

Help coping with a really bad breakup?

I am 22 years old and was just broken up with by my ex of three years. We had spent a half a year in an inbetween stage but decided to cut things off. I would have married him in a heartbeat but he doesn't feel the same. There's been a lot of pain and anguish for me with this is the past but this is unbearable. I don't know how to cope. I don't want to get out of bed, I spend the whole entire day crying, and I seriously feel like I will never be happy ever again. I am incredibly heartbroken and as much as I want to completely hate my ex I don't the least bit. I can't understand how I can feel so strongly and he doesn't. I literally can't cope and I need advice.Help coping with a really bad breakup?
well this has happened to me, and it happens to everyone for the most part. you will only get more depressed if you mope around. you NEED to get out and do stuff, call your friends, if you don't have any then go out and get social. Go to a bar and hook up with some random guy, use a condom. Then do it again. Sleeping with other guys even though your not in love with them or whatever will help.





Also, trust me, there will come a day when you find someone else you like just as much and he will probably be less of a jerk. thats what happened to me.Help coping with a really bad breakup?
Read this book. Really helped me


http://books.google.com/books?id=9B-2x8k鈥?/a>
You have to move on. Time heals all wounds. Stop speaking to him. Say, ';if I can't be your GF I can't be your friend.'; You'll feel better in a few months.

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