How long was your breakup for?

i'm just curious.


did you ever get back with your boyfriend or girlfriend after a certain amount of time. what was the longest you guys broke up for?





my bf broke up with me and he told me he doesn't want to get back with me. he says he can't and the answer is no. He told me he doesn't know what the future holds but it would be a long time if we do get back.





we've been together for a year and i can't believe he made a decision so fast. we broke up friday and he told me today that he can't get back with me.





my mom says he probably doesn't even know what he wants but within time he'll want to come back. we broke up cos of my anger but im getting help and he said he sees it





this prob sounds lame but my mom told me she and my dad broke up for a long time and alot (10 months was the most) and they've been married for 27 years.





how long was your breakup for?


how did you cope?


how did you work things out?


what got you both to start talking?





im just sad and i guess i need some hope hahaHow long was your breakup for?
well once, i broke up with my bf and we werent together for 13 months, and we got back together and realized that it just wasnt ment to be, but were still pretty good freinds.


hes probably just confused right now, and maybe if you give him time to think he'll realize that he needs you in his life, so maybe send him a text, or email saying ';i understand you dont want to get back with me, and ill give you that, but it still hurts me, and i want to know that, at least, we can still be friends';


because if you guys are still friends he can be around to see how much progress your making and how much better you are as a person! goodluck!How long was your breakup for?
My breakup was for about a week. I coped by crying and also by having confidence that if we both wanted it bad enough we would get back together, but I also tried everything to make him realize the spark was there. I worked things out by making a comprimise with him, go out and don't see each other every day. We started talking because one of our close friends made us talk.
if you went through all that and he still wont take you back dont waste anymore of your time. you deserve better. my bf of 1 1/2 yrs (not including the almost 2 months we broke up) are having some problems right now. but i still love him. trust me you will find another guy!


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honey, just forget about him, stop calling him or trying to talk to him, you can do better. Get over him, he doesn't deserve you
I got back with an ex after 6 months one time.


sometimes a week, and sometimes the next day.
you will get over it trust me! and when both of ye are over it for a while it will be easier to talk again as FRIENDS!!!! then its like start like him again or you may not!! but then ye get to the friends stage you'l no wat to do frm there!!





dont worry i ended it with a lad after a year and 8months!!


and it took us another year to get back together! [but there were lads in between] we only dd by chance rely get ot wit loads of friends and ended up kissing afer that it was like we never brokr up!! and we'v been together sence!!





listen! ifs its ment to be it will happen!! give it time!! if not then that life but for now enloy bein single!!





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im in your boat right now. my gf of a few months just decided to break up with me and she really didn't have a reason why. i told her how much i cared about her and her decision still stood. that was about a week and a half ago and i havent spoken to her. i want to so bad but at the same time if i keep talking to her it is going to make me miss her more and she wont miss me as much cuz i would still be talking to her. my advice to you is to do the same, just live your life and have fun with friends and if things work out than great if not i am very sorry but it just means that things were not ment to be. i hope things work out for you. BE STRONG!!!! i know how you feel and it sucks.
Honestly.... leave him a lone. If you keep pushing it, you will push HIM away even more. It would be nice to at least have him as a friend. If he wants to get back with you he will let you know. Sometimes when you break up %26amp; wait a few months and then get back together, it just doesn't work. Sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't. But the best thing to do is let him be. Do your own thing. If he wants you back then ....try that.
Honey, listen to me. This advice will sound stupid, but all you have to do is act like a princess. Yes, a princess. Do not go after him, don't chase someone who doesn't want you. In fact, don't chase anyone, if anything he should be chasing after you. Be classy. Don't let this get to you. If you act like you're not interested, he will want you more if you two are meant to be.


For now, concentrate on yourself. Cry, really, let it all out. Cry till your eyes cannot produce any more tears and then start a journal. Write all your frustrations into it, let it all out. Then be free of him. Be completely free. Get in touch with your friends, hang out with your family. Keep yourself busy. Paint your room or something, throw away all your junk, buy a few new things for your room. Start your life over without him. Spoil yourself. Go shopping, go to the spa, whatever.


Me and my boyfriend got back together after a week or so, and we're still together.


He will probably come around eventually. If he doesn't, was he really worth it in first place?


But right now, you have to show him that you don't care. Don't even talk to him. Don't show him that you're hurt.








good luck, I know its hard, but it is part of life and you need to learn that heart brakes cannot destroy you. Life is too short.
Me and my ex had this on again off again thing for about a month and a half. I think it took us like maybe a month to get back together the 1st time, however I regretfully admit that I pretty much bribed him into it. Now I look at that and think how completely stupid, and awful of me. Please do not make my mistake and do that. Trying to be with someone that doesnt want to be with you hurts a grat deal more then you would think. How did I cope? Now that subject I actually like to share with people....first it was all about pain killers (don't do that its dumb as well) and sleep. I think I'd sleep 19 hours at a time. Some days I never did get out of bed unless it was to go to the ladies room(deffinetly not healthy! Make sure to march ur behind down to the kitchen and eat!) I lost 30 pounds in the 1st month, my acne broke out insanely (I now have some scares from it) and I felt continuously tiered and weak. However like everyone says (and it's true) it gets easier. No it wasn't fast, I had to work at it day by day (we broke up the month skool let out so I had a whole summer 2 mope) the first thing I did may have been a little petty but I don't regret it....I took everything of his that I had, everything he had given me, and anything that reminded me of him and put it in a fire pit and burnt it all. Then I took every song reminding me of him off my ipod (I like to call that de-boyfriend-atizing my ipod) including the ones from him. Then I read ';How To Be Completely Misrable'; by : John Bytheway I recommend u give it a read its a very short book, but makes so much sense and it cheered me up a great deal. I also read books like ';The Break Up Bible'; and ';The Heart Breakers Love Rules';.....self help books are deffinetly a must if you like to read. Eventually I became me again, only better, stronger, and bolder then ever. When school atarted back up I admit I cried the first time I saw him and hid in a bathroom for all of my lunch, we even became friends (big mistake! if you r still inlove don't try to be his friend) but it ended horribly as I confessed my feelings for him, and lets just say they weren't returned. I allowed myself one good cry after that, and then decided that was it. That would be the end of him having any power over me, and that was where it stopped, that very day. Sorry I just wrote you a book about my breakup practically lol.....but if it doesnt work out (not saying it wont) I hope some of my coping experiances will help you, and also don't forget there are plenty of other starfish in the sea. I am so glad my ex didn't take me back, as now I am with the best damn thing, and I love him dearly. I wish you both the best of luck.