My boyfriend of 6 months recently broke up with me. It was that kind of break up that we both didnt want to but had to do it. I was the one who didnt want it more, he broke up with me b'cuz he said he is too young for a relationship(he is 21 i am 22). We never had any problems, our relationship was perfect everything was going just perfect. I dont get him he says i have feelings for you but don't want to go deep cuz i am afraid and he decided to end it. I dont know how to react he still wants to see me but doesnt want a relationship( i guess cuz the sex was the best). Im really heart broken i dont know whether to accept his behaviour or just forget him forever.. i truly love him, ive never clicked with a guy before like i do with him... btw im his ';first official longest girlfriend'; he has ever had, he used to be a player and he wants to go to his old roots... Is this how people in love behave? or am i just old fashioned? Should i see him or should i ignore him.. i've done my best for the relationship to be perfect but i guess ive done wrong :(How should i cope with a breakup like this?
Fact 1: He broke up with you. Whatever excuse he gave, the fact is that he wanted to break up or he wouldn't have done so.
Fact 2: He said he ';doesn't want to go deep.'; He's ';afraid.'; That translates to he's not ready.
Those two facts should be enough to make you want to look for someone who IS ready and who WILL fight to keep you. But then, there's...
Fact 3: His longest relationship - that's you, he says - lasted for only six months. Why, do you think, is that?
Fact 4: He said he doesn't want a relationship - but he still wants to see you? (And you say it maybe because of the sex? And you think that's all you're worth?)
Don't sell yourself short, sister. There are plenty of good men out there. But you can't find them if you keep your eyes fixed on a bad one.
Forget the jerk. Don't even see him again. In other words, quit cold turkey. When you're no longer blinded by love, you'll realize you don't even want to be friends with somebody like this.
Move on. Move forward! Move up!How should i cope with a breakup like this?
Best thing?
Ignore him.
But you won't do that will you :P
I CHALLENGE you to ignore him until he begs you to talk, and even then say you're immature, grow up, let me be for a while.
Do it.
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