How do you cope with a breakup?

I take a while to fall for a guy, but when I do I fall hard!! When I was only like 11, I met a boy who went out of his way to get me to like him, well it worked, %26amp; I was stuck on the same kid all the way up until I was 16, went through this horrible depression, %26amp; realized I had to move on. I met a guy a little after this, who I thought was the most impressive guy ever. I was determined that I was not interested, until he nurtured my scarred from the previous, relationship insecure self into falling in love with him. I'm 19 now and he's ended it with me after a 2 1/2 year relationship. I'm going to change my number %26amp; erase him out of my life because I can feel myself coming down with another depression. Both guys were crazy about me, but I think I made them feel small, like they felt insecure dating me. with the 1st guy I didn't try, but with the 2nd I did fight 2prove that we could work, but he didn't agree!!! Why do you think this happens to me? %26amp; what can I do to ease the pain? =(How do you cope with a breakup?
As they say....Time heals all woundsHow do you cope with a breakup?
One concrete way to get over it is to make a list of negative things about him looks, personality, mean things he said, bad times and then rip it up and throw it away or burn it. It's good because it gives you away to release your pain and misplaced anger.
That really sucks. ]: I hope everything works out for you.


What I did was I hung out with my friends more, and I picked up my old hobbies. Try and distract your mind from thinking about him.