Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to cope with a breakup?

My wife just left me after I confronted her with her cyber-cheating, and about her fling at work. We were married for 8yrs now with 4 beautiful kids. our marriage was on the rocks since I lost my job with a good income. I love my wife but she said she doesn't love me anymore. My marriage vow that I made to her in God and in man is making me guilty, and miserable. I am deeply hurt and betrayed. But I still love her and am very much ready to accept her, but I want her to stop all her fling relationships at work and in the net. And also, to stop flirting but to settle down with me as family. Should I win her back? or should I just moved on?How to cope with a breakup?
You have to ask yourself this one important question...


';How long am I willing to let this person hurt me?';


This is the main question my therapist asked me when I was hurting...


I moved on from my pain and found a new truer more wonderful love than before...


When one door closes, another one opens, you might be leaving a good thing for something much better in your life...


Good luck.....How to cope with a breakup?
No quick and easy answers. Justin has got it right.





Good luck.
Well it is difficult! go to 700 club in CBN. com %26amp; read about similar questions %26amp; similar answers. Or you may go to www.joycemeyer.org %26gt; healig the hurt articles. May Jesus heal your heart %26amp; comfort your soul. Blessings!
no quick fix for that brother, just keep on living, that's all you can do.
MOVE ON..ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.DIDTHE MARRIGE FALL APART OVER MONEY..IF SO SHE IS PRETTY SHALLOW...DO U WANT SOEMONE WHO IS THAT DISRESPECTFUL OF YOU??? DONT ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET HURT AGAIN LEAVE HER..THEN MAYBE SHE WILL REALIZE WHAT SHE HAS LOST..
Mine did the same. Don't bother with her. Get your kids taken care of. Divorce her no matter what. Then when you are ready find a honest loyal woman. Good Luck cause there aren't many out there, same with men!
Just move on.


You deserve better.
Your wife probably did not marry out of love but for your pocket and when it was not forthcoming, she left. Pray that god open your eyes to see the lessons in this. It could be that you have a karma to resolve (if you believe in this but its true). Your primary purpose in creation is to make ascension - move on

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