What is the best way to cope with Kids and breakup?

My ex and I went through bitter ending and we have a child. Now his life has to change and we will be with him half the time. How do you cope with this for I am feeling pretty depressed about all of this. Throughout my life I didn鈥檛 think this would happen to me. It is crazy to see dream after dream die. I don鈥檛 think I could ever go through this again with having another child so I am going to try and not have sex or another person in my life.What is the best way to cope with Kids and breakup?
After the initial hurt, which is very normal, you will realize that your child needs to spend some time with the other parent. It is in the best interest of the child to see them and spend time with them. It's hard to watch your dreams die. I know when I got divorced, I thought my life was over, but I'm happy to report, it wasn't. My life today, post divorce, is the best life I ever had. Hang in there. It DOES get better!What is the best way to cope with Kids and breakup?
hey hun....for one don't blame yourself for what happened. I have been through this except my ex doesn't want to see his kids. We have two together. For one just love your child as much as you possibly can, and whatever you do don't tell your child horrible things about their father because then it will make with bitterness between you and your child. Enjoy the time that you have away without your child take a mommy time and think about yourself. Go christmas shopping, go out to eat with friends, keep yourself busy and do things that you normally couldn't do around your child like cleaning and resting relaxing and whatever you like to do. And don't completely block men out of your life that relationship just wasn't meant to be and the right one will come along just take time for yourself and it will happen not all men are the same. I thought like you and if I did what i said about not having another one in my life I wouldn't have what I have now. A great fiance and another daughter.
tell your kid(s) that both of you love him/her , and none of this is there fault . be responsible and take care of your child and be there for your child . be mature just because the old half wants to play games ... it happens child custody gets nasty and move on slowly ... and believe me you'll sleep with someone again in your life time thats the depressed anger talking ....