not to get into the symantics, but we left on good terms
though ive never felt so close to death before.
i know it sounds stupid,
buti want so badly to feel beautiful and desired again.
could anyone offer me a suggestion on how to cope?
if you could offer some advice or experiences, id greatly appreiciate it.
thank you.How to cope with first breakup?
Don't fight your feelings. It WILL hurt. It WILL be hard. But every day will get a little easier.
Don't put yourself down. Breakups happen all the time. Don't try to expect to be best friends with him the next day - you need to remember who you are without him. And appreciate yourself, recognizing everything you like about yourself.
Allow yourself some time to bum around and be sad. Don't resort to listening to sad music after a few days - it'll only feed into the emotion you feel already and make it worse.
This may sound lame, but consider a haircut. Or a hairdye. Or even a nice new shirt. Something that can represent a new stage in your life. There will be other boys and other heartbreak. It's all a part of progression.
Good luck!How to cope with first breakup?
Hi There,
It's very hard not only for the first breakup, but any breakup after that.
The best part keep busy so you cann't think about him, and look always at your best. Do not sit home and feel the world is coming to end because he was a loser not realize how much you care about him.
Go out with people who treat you with respect and care about you.
Another guy will be glad to have you as friend first and then if it works out then let him be your boyfriend. ';Don't wear your hear on your sleeves'; ! Good luck and always smile!
First try not to think about him. Go call up your girls and have fun go shopping and what ever you do with your friends.
idk
srry my first break up was 2 1/2 yrs. ago and im not over it
well the jerks on here wont help you
start lookin at other guys and flirt that always helps me
Its normal to feel this way,
when the first boyfriend i had broke up with me i cried for like weeks, i was so upset and i felt so bad about myself.It took me 2 years to fully get over him but once i let go of him i found a lot of nice guys and had a couple of flings.
the best thing to do is let yourself feel what you have to feel.
listen to music, watch movies, read, try to get your mind off of things.
trust me, i felt like my world was crumbleing but now i realize im fine, and that i thought it was real love but it really wasnt.. and i met a lot of guys so he deffiantly wasnt my last.
im going to list some books and movie and music to listen to haha sorry im on a rant and i think this will help.
Books: Someone like you sarah dessen
Forever- Judy blume
The summer of boys ( cant remember the author )
In or out ( series of books)
Movies: A walk to remember, The wedding singer, the sisterhood of the traveling pants ( i cried so many times haha!)
T.v shows: The o.c ( honestly, i cried so many times, its an amazing show and it really gets your mind off of your problems and makes them seem simple compared to theirs)
Laguna beach ( its also a teen drama sort of thing with break ups and that kind of stuff) \
Music: Oh god i could go on and on and on but heres some
The best you never had- leona lewis
When it was me-Paula DeAnda
Coldplay - anything really, its amazing and deep lyrics!
The goo goo dolls- i love them! slide is awesome
Worn me down-Rachael Yamagata
Explosions in the sky- Your hand in mine ( no lyrics but awesome to cry to hah or just think to )
______________________________________鈥?br>
Post breakup, watch funny movies
Ugly betty ( its so funny i love it! )
Harold and kumar escape from guantaunamo bay ( its kind of nasty humor but very entertaining! )
The freshprince of bel-air seasons ( i love this show too its so funny! )
Ice cream : Ben %26amp; jerrys half baked ice cream.
Yeah sorry i put a lot hahah but this should help
I used to write in my journal to get my feelings out.. this may help.
good luck! it will be better in time hun! :)
No comments:
Post a Comment