How to cope after a tough breakup?

I just broke up with my boyfriend recently because he was being distant and he told me he didn't care about me or anyone anymore. Well, later he said some pretty horrible things about me. He said I was ugly, my body was disgusting (I'm 5'4'; and weigh 115 lbs and I'm athletic for Christ's sake), and that I ';don't look normal';, he only said he liked me to get in my pants, etc. He knows I have body and self image issues, so he knew exactly how to hurt me, so even though I know a lot of what he said was bullshit, it still hurts. What are some ways of forgetting a bad relationship?How to cope after a tough breakup?
I suggest you stop thinking about that jerk, and instead of being hurt, just ignore him.


Never get hurt. If that asshole break up with you just because he wants to break your heart, all the more you should not be hurt. Don't let him 'win'.





You might want to listen to break up songs like ';7 things', 'The potential Break Up song'





Remember, forget him. Treat him as a lesson. So in future, you might want to be careful when you get a guy. Don't get too close and leak your weakness out if you're not so close.





You are strong, and think positive. Look into a mirror. You'll see an athlete, a strong tough girl who will not be demoralised/lose confidence just because her bloody boyfriend broke up with her. Tell yourself that you're not what he said, you're not ugly (because no one is), and that you'll find someone who will appreciate you one day.





Last thing, forget that jerk!How to cope after a tough breakup?
By remembering that he is a pig and that you CAN find a guy 200% better than him. He is not worth the space in your brain. Fill it up with something better.
just keep yourself busy, go out with your girls, go shopping, anything to get your mind off of it. and just thank God that it ended, why would you want this jerk around? he's a real azzhole to take your insecurities and use them against you. i've been through a bad break up before, and trust me, it's not worth to sit there and cry about it or think ';what did i do?'; do you think that he is sitting at home and crying over you? i doubt it after what he said to you. life goes on and although it does hurt, you will get over it. there are so many guys out there in this world, and you will find the one that will give you the respect and love you deserve, just don't try so hard to look for it. love comes to you when you least expect it. good luck hun鈾?br>

**PS: get yourself a makeover and make him regret the day he broke your heart! and act like you could care less that he left you, don't ever let him see you hurt, guys feed off of that!. **