Leo men, am I being egotistical?

Maybe I'm being a little egotistical, but uhm...I think my Leo ex might want me back. Apparently once a Leo breaks it off with you, there's no changing his mind...but I think he wants me back as much as I want him back.





Here are my facts:


~ Gemini Sun


~ Aries Moon


~ Aries Rising





Here's the story:





About 2 or 3 weeks ago, my Leo man broke up with me. And I was kinda like ';Ok, so be it.'; But a day after we broke up, we started talking and he expressed to me that he was pretty upset that I hadn't put much of a fight up when he broke up with me. But the best way that I cope with a breakup (especially one like the last, I really uh...loved him. yea...nothing distracted me from him haha), is by just erasing him from my life. Which I did.





But then i started feeling really lonely and I told him that I realized that I he was right and that I did have something worth fighting for and that I was going to do whatever it takes to get him back. So we started talking (more like texting) again, and he would periodically ask me if I was still trying to get him back, and I would say yes, and he would be like ';Haha well you're not doing a very good job';.





Anyways, I've been getting REALLY busy and I was unable to call him every night like I usually do, because he gets out of work late and i usually fall asleep before he gets out. I think I didn't contact him at all for about a week.





Recently, he accused me of ';giving up'; on him. He was like ';guess you dont want me back anymore.. :\'; and ';well I guess we're not talking but you have my number in case you want to hang out..or at least talk..';





So since I've gotten those messages, I we've talked again. I called him one night and told him about a really WILD dream I had about us, and he told me to come over. I didn't. But two days later (yesterday), I ended up going over and we hung out and eventually hooked up (funny thing is, I was surprised that he even hooked up with me, cuz he could get it from WHOEVER he wants, he has a lot of girls swooning over him. and the entire time, it was like we never broke up at all. maybe its just me?)





When I left, I got a text from him saying ';I like how you just..left. :\ '; And we texted a lil and he asked me ';When is the next time I get to see you again?'; and I told him that I didnt know because we live so far and my parents forbade me from seeing him.





Tomorrow, I dont have to be at school til noon. So I invited him over for the morning, but he said he couldn't miss school and that he doesnt have gas money. I told him that I'd give him gas money and tried hard to convince him to come over, but he was resolute. Anyhow he told me to set up another time to hang out with him because (this is exactly what he said)





';I'm ALWAYS available to hang out with YOU.';





Idk, to me, the extra emphasis on those words kinda..made me feel a wee bit special? Or is that just Leo charm?





And then he started speaking in a pessimistic tone saying how all I wanted from him was sex and that's the only reason why I wanted him over tomorrow. and he said ';Listen, the first step is reestablishing communication with me';. and he proceeded to tell me about how I should focus on getting a new phone (since mine has been broken for like the past 3 weeks) I told him that I dont get the house all to myself very often, and told him that it wouldnt happen til January. and he said ';Well, be patient. I always am when it comes to us, we can both wait til January to be together..';





So by him telling me these things, I figure, that he wants me back to? I mean, he technically told me the first step in getting him back, right?





OR AM I JUST BEING EGOTISTICAL?


Maybe Im reading into his words too much?


Maybe Im being too sappy? Feeling connections that aren't there?


Maybe Im the yarn and he's...the Leo?





Just wondering.


I want to know how I should approach this situation. More importantly, Im trying to decide on being vulnerable or protecting myself.Leo men, am I being egotistical?
haha at above answer.





i broke up with a gemini ex, stupidly too. And then we acted like we were going out. And i wanted him back bcos he did what u did, accept the break up quickly.





Sometimes i think if you love each other enough you would not have broken up, however, love is not always perfect.





I think if you like him enough to think it will work, go with it. Wats the worst that could happen? you've already been hurt. i dont think it will get worse. Just put yourself firstLeo men, am I being egotistical?
leo men sometime have hard time decide in relationship. yes, they is good lover but they not know what do. they are not smarts in relationship thing sometime. yes your leo man sweetie want you back but he kinda stupid for broke up you. i am scorpio male
I'm just wondering...





Did you ever ask why he broke up with you in the first place?





I think you are rushing through everything way too fast.





First, you took the break up way too easily. you said you broke up 2-3 weeks ago? you've said you erased him from your memory right after breakup. was that easy to you? although you admitted missing him afterwards...he is probably hurt that you didn't even bother to try to save the relationship.


Second, you started seeking him again when you got lonely. He's probably thinking you are wanting him back bc you're lonely, not because you really love him.


Third, you leave him when your ';needs'; are satisfied. and want him when you need him. you don't actually care for his feelings.





You need to see things from his view. Calm down and reflect upon on yourself.