How can i cope with a bad breakup?

Hey everyone. I never thought I would be looking for help through the internet but at this point I think it's my only choice. First off I'm going to tell you a little about me. I'm a 23 year old lesbian who just got out of a really bad breakup. Basically, back in July my girlfriend of a little over a year broke up with me and in my opinion, out of no where. We went to Florida together back in June and had a great time, but things started to go down hill a month later when we were house sitting my aunts house. We kept bickering about the smallest things but in my opinion, they weren't something to take too seriously, something a couple an always work on. We were in bed the last night and she had whispered to me that she doesn't ever want to break up and that she loves me too much. Well 5 days later, she broke up with me. I was heartbroken, but I let her be by herself and a week later she called me to get together and return eachothers belongings. We met up, exchanged things and started talking about what has been going on with our lives. We were getting along and agreed that we would try to be friends. Well the friends thing turned into more than friends, we started hanging out more, she went to my sisters wedding and told me how much she loved me and wanted to marry me in the future, blah blah. That lasted about a month, and then out of no where once again, she started to ignore my calls and basically wants nothing to do with me anymore.





She is going through alot of changes in her life right now. She just graduated from college and is trying to get a job, but not having much luck. I feel like she is just pushing me away when in reality, she really needs me to be there for her. I don't know what to do. Somedays I am okay but then there is other days where I just want to go to her house and let out everything I am feeling and try to get her back.





What do I do? :/How can i cope with a bad breakup?
We鈥檝e all weathered the emotional maelstrom that accompanies the end of a relationship. Whether you鈥檙e the dumper or the dumped the initial couple of weeks after the break up can seem like a never ending wave of grief, anger and despair.How can i cope with a bad breakup?
well if shes avoiding your phone calls i wouldnt want to tlk to her if she calls u again and says i want u back the first thing u should say is first i want to set some ground rules u cant keep going on and off with if u want me u would stay with and not keep cuming off and on i just want u to no that i luv u and always will luv


thats wat u shoukd say if u realle care about her


good luck=)