Heartbroken,,,and how to cope with it?

We were together a year. he seems fine without me..even heard hes already talking to someone else...its only been 3 weeks. One day he told me how much he loved me and how he couldnt wait to move in together...the next he says he doesnt and doesnt want to me with me anymore. How do u usually cope after a breakup? ITs getting pretty unbearable at times,


I think I need to see a therapist? What do they talk to you about anyways?Heartbroken,,,and how to cope with it?
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i'm sorry, i know the feeling and alot of people do too. i hope you feel better, just keep yourself busy, it does not necessarily mean that you need a therapist, i think you need just time and find yourself someone to talk to also, like a rebound!!
Forget the therapist they just let you ramble on for an hour and charge you the earth.





Don't give into his foolish ways he's string you along. Tell him to get lost so you can move on.
OK, I am going through the EXACT same thing, I'm not even kidding you EXACT, only she replaced me in about a week. You need to realize that he is worthless to you, that you don't need that in your life and that you deserve better. And what helps the most is time, everyday its a little easier for me to get out of bed and deal with things, just hang in there it does get easier I promise you that. I think you need to see a therapist only if it doesn't go away after awhile, I wouldn't rush to one right away. I know its the worst feeling in the world and I really am going through the exact thing as you, my girlfriend left me recently and seemed fine and a week later is with a new guy, we had been together about a year and it really hurts I know. If you want to talk more about it feel free to shoot me a email. like I said I can really relate.





I'm serious though if you want to talk about it I can really relate, this happened to me about a week and a half ago, email me and we can talk on yahoo messenger.
I'm going thru the same thing. What u need to do is just try to forget. My ex broke up wit me last night. And we went out for about 3 week too. he said he wanted to take a break and that he wanted to still be friends and that it wasn't anybodys fault and that we could get back together in the future and that he would save himself for me! BULLCRAP!!! jsut tell yourself hes a loser and that u dont need him
i'm sorry for what your going through but face it,women don't do as good as men in this department.look at it this way,its his loss.you will be fine and you will see that in time.one day you will be out on a date and might run into him,when you do,smile bigggggg,show him your ok without him.good luck.