Coping with breakups?

What is the best way to deal with that if everything from the underwear you have to wear (coz he bought it or u bought it together) to just someone asking you to how you are brings loads of memories and you just cry.


Have to go to uni and work but am just in tears all the time so can't stay there for longbefore i decide to leave plus friends wont help not because they are not trying again just memories again....guess it was a wasted 4 and half years but not handling things well at moment.Coping with breakups?
I know it seems hard and it hurts, but sometimes things don't work out for a reason or some men like to have a woman love them only so they can break them down. Even if you feel strong feelings, push them to the back of your mind and forget!! As time goes by it may get easier. And when you want to cry, just imagine someone can see you. No matter how weird you may act during this time-you wouldnt give someone the satisfaction of seeing they broke you to crying? To misery? Even if they did. No one has to know but you. And don't forget how much this hurts now, so you don't get wrapped up in someone in the future. Being in a relationship is nice, but not ever fully trusting people who are out to hurt you is better in the long run.Coping with breakups?
There is 2 ways or dealing with the underwear, either get rid of it so it doesnt remind you or get a new connection with it (IE connect it to an ace night out or something).





Dont let this guy stop you doing well at uni, your friends will be there when you need them, if they are proper friends. Dont let people get you down.Sometimes the best thing to do is get yourself back out there and have fun, its what i did, not on the pull looking for a rebound relationship just having fun with mates, too my mind off it and stuff.





Give it time and you will get over it





Good luck





Angel
Well I throw away everything givin to me. I turn my sadness into anger.


I write down all the bad things about that person and why i should love that person.


You where fine before you met that person you'll be fine with out that person. I go out with my friends and get snockered. I don't get involved with any relationships and that person will always find me.
ah you poor thing - you sound miserable - but it does sound like this breakup is recent? I know its cliche - but time DOES help a lot hun - and in a week or two you will start to feel that bit better about things, and whilst the pain might not have totally gone - you wont feel the need to cry every two minutes.


xx
That's exactly what he expects of you while he struts about like a big headed mouse who just got the cheese.








Laugh,its life,you could of lost your legs or something really to be pi..ed off about.





Are you worth so little? i don't think so.





Get on with it and pull yourself up.