Coping with a BREAKUP...Help..?

Boyfriend of 2yrs (we're both 23yrs old by the way) broke up with me last week for no real reason. He said we are eachothers ';crutch'; and that we were wasting eachothers time. He literally said that 2days after telling me he loves me/how he wants to spend his life with me/and we went apartment shopping last weekend! He has always said that he loves me, now he suddenly doesn't want to speak to me ever again. So we haven't talked since! I am having a really hard time moving on. I feel so betrayed, confused, and used. As if our entire relationship was fake. How can you be so serious with someone for so long and then suddenly not want them in your life? Anyway, my self esteem is shot, I can hardly get out of bed each day. I'm so depressed because of this. I feel like I have nothing and no one. All of my time was spent with him, I told him everything, he was my bestfriend. I know I have to be strong...but it's hard. Any ideas on what I can do to forget him/move on faster? ThanksCoping with a BREAKUP...Help..?
Unfortunately, I've been in a similar situation. It was hard not to blame myself for the break up and I wouldn't be surprised if you're feeling the same way. But you know what, it's absolutely not your fault. Once you realize that he's the one who was the problem and he was the one who caused the break up, moving on becomes a lot easier.





Give it time. You will move on and you will find someone who's better for you.





';What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger';





Good luck!Coping with a BREAKUP...Help..?
You have the same situation as me, well i love this girl that i was with for over 5 years, recently she left me and i think she is moving out to Chicago, and its tearing me inside. were both 28
You are young. Time heals all wounds. Pick up a new hobby, maybe martial arts to take out your frustration, and tomove on.
girl..the same thing happened to me as to where we were together for 12 years and like you said how can someone be serious with someone so long and then they decide they dont want you in their life. especially when the two of you are best friends.. he cheated on me and booted me out of his life..It hurts badly and its hard to move on for awhile..you are grieving and thats normal..just keep yourself busy with friends and family,go to movies,beach.Remember to take care of yourself..buy new things for you,go to beach,keep yourself nourished ..dont let this ex get the best of you ,i know you have a broken heart but you can and will bounce back . before you know it,youll find that special someone .good luck and i hope this helps..
I'm sorry your going trough this. I know how hard it can be. First you have to give your self time. Go out with your friends, but try to avoid places that you might see him at, I know its hard and you probably want to see him, but its not a good idea, trust me, after a break up, its not a good thing to run into him, it happend to me, I went out after I broke up with my boyfriend to all the places he went to n all did was see him with another person, got upset, got drunk n made a fool of myself.


You need to be strong, I know its had, but just try to be. Tell your friends to help you. Don't text me, do everything in your power not to think of him. Ask God to help you!!


Go dancing with your friends, join a gym, try something new.


Just give it time!!


I hope you can get over this soon!!


Take care!!!
aww sweety that is horrible! loove hurts it really does! i know how you feel you have this empty feeling and you just keep playing all the memories in your head like a reel of movies! i would say let yourself have a few days maybe a whole weekend have your best friend (i know he was it as well but your other best friend) come over and just talk and cry and let it all out WALLOW dont get dressed watch movies and order pizza and ice cream and let it all out! im not saying it helps everything it just lets you get passed the first stage cuz once you cry that much you wont be able to anymore! you cant really forget it rite away but just keep busy like work, friends, family, anything that keeps you occupied and you arent alone cuz if your doing it alone you'll think about him! you know he could have just gotten scared! if you guys were looking at apartments and talking about being togetha forever he probably just got really scared! cuz that is a big thing! i know that doesnt make any of this better but it may mean he just needed a few days to think and i have a feeling he'll be calling you and wanting you back but what you are now faced with is do you want to keep going you would really have to talk to him and find out wat happend! i really hope everything works out for you im soooo sorry but the heart does heal it just takes a long time!