My ex dumped me a month back and he would be married to his girl next month. Officially, its over b/w us.. I am still coping up from it, I still miss him terribly, I cry, am depressed, I wait for his call.. I know I have to come over this soon and am not able to handle it..
Now, just two days back, I met a guy that is married, has a perfect marriage. He heard my story and I was so comfortable talking to him that we went for a coffee.. Today, I fell sick, had to go to the hospital, I just msgd this guy that I am not well and he picked me up to the hospital, waited for me there, and was dropping me back home. When we were driving back, I got this sexual urge and somehow we ended up with it. He felt guilty, I did not.. Rather I felt that I have taken revenge on my ex who dumped me and revenge on myself being fooled for 3 long years by my ex.... I dont really know why I did this.. I know it isnt a normal thing to do. U still love your ex, u miss him, u meet someone and have sex.. I think what I did was very slutty.. I did say goodbye to the married guy cz I dont really want to harm his married life at any cost, he was good to me..
How do I convince myself that I am not a slut.. that it happens with some ppl............ and how do I forget my ex who has hurt me so deeply?? Today, when I was in pain, when I called him, he didnt have the courtesy to even ask me how am doing..Was it right to get physical with someone when am still going through a breakup?
no i wouldn't consider you a slut. i would say weak and vulnerable at the moment. dont call him...dont do anything that reminds you of him. find constructive ways to get over him rather than sleep with people. hang out with your friends, take up a hobby..something. the more and longer you contact this guy and try to see him or talk to him, the longer it will take before you get over him and move on! good luckWas it right to get physical with someone when am still going through a breakup?
get over it. sorry, people move on. i know how you feel, it sucks but you have to move on. and id adivise you not to sleep with married people. bad karma
Friday, August 20, 2010
Why do i feel like this ? please help - heartbreak after breakup?
hey. so im 17.
fell hard for a guy for the first time. i know it all sounds corny like in books but yeah im sure loads of you have been there, i didnt fall in love, but i could of done, i liked him that much.
never feelt like it
but
we ended the other day.
i was close to a guy before him, who for 3 years weve been friends now but more before i was with this guy.
now weve split up
nothing feels right. my mind keeps flicking back to him, thoughts about him, every single day. i miss him. its nothing too bad at first it was bloody awful. but not im coping.
why does it feel like
i cant feel right with any other guy without him popping up
i lost my virginity to him
i cant imagine sleeping with any other guy, even the one i thought i would lose it to.
close to him 2 years before that, didnt lose it to him.. yet a month in i did with my ex. he seemed right. i didnt even think about it, and i have nor regrets at all. but i imagine me sleepin with another guy
but my ex popping back to mind,,
i reaaally liked him, hence why i let him go
but
is this usual? dont tell me its normal we all go through it. any detailed ways of telling me please :// ?
will this pass? i dont think i was in love. but i never realised how much i know about him, how blind i was, till now.. or is that the process of falling? cause i dont feel in so much pain i need him , i just feel attached still.
will this get easier?
we were so close, yet only spent once twice a week together, for up to 27hours at a time.. he was 20 im 17.. hmm. please help
MY MIND keeps going back to how intense sex was etc, how meaningful and right it felt, and how close we were, i dont regret it at all, i just miss what we had and that was a way of knowing how deep it was. get me ?Why do i feel like this ? please help - heartbreak after breakup?
THIS WILL PASS, DARLING. Don't worry. Hang in there... There's always a rainbow after the rain.
I know you will think that you'll never get over your ex because your mind would go back to the great sex you had with him and all. I know that it was very meaningful to you given the fact that you gave your valuable purity to him, but you have to know that maybe he was just not meant for you. Everything happens for a reason. There are a lot of things that could help you get over him in no time. Try to distract you mind with new approaches. Maybe a rebound guy is too new for you, or you're just not ready yet. How about hanging out and chilling with your girlfriends %26amp; family? Have fun and don't spend your days in your room thinking how you and him could have been now. You have to stop that sooner or later. The right man for you is out there somewhere. It will just take a little more time for you to realize that. Be strong, girl.Why do i feel like this ? please help - heartbreak after breakup?
Because you were in love with him. You loved him and it HURTS to lose that. Especially. ESPECIALLY. since you lost your virginity to him. That always deeply connects you to a person.
These love stories are the saddest. I am going through one right now.
I'm sorry, I wish I could tell you of something that would relieve the pain.
I lol'd at he was 20 and your 17. Why does that happen so much? Makes me sad.
Anyway what you are feeling is attachment. I can tell he was your first big fall, that you really really liked. It does happen to everyone but not often. Chances are out of all the filth you're used to he was a gold puzzle piece that just didn't fit right. So he was good and all that, but you have to get over him and find the next one.
You were starting to get used to him and when you lose someone that you've did a lot with, you start missing them bunches. It just happened to me the other day. And the only thing you can do is think about all the bad things that happened and try your best to not think about the good times because if you do, it makes it 10 times worse. I wish you luck :
|Don't you notice?
After tht guy said, i guess, flowery stuff to u, and after commiting such thing, u broke up (or *he left u?) It just sounds lyk a game tht tht person played on u, just for his desire..
u no, iv herd alot of girls in the same situation as u, and they all ended up the same.. or were dumped in the same way after commiting the thing u were talking bout..
u no, girls don recognize to these kinds of things as much.. they r naive to themselves, thts why they let these things happen to them, humiliating themselves, and hurt themselves in the end... its usually always women or girls.. well there shudnt be usually but, its always girls side to get tricked and dumped and hurt a lot.. the boyz don care, theyre in fact satisfied bcuz they had their desires fulfilled.. and its up to u whether u want to wake up to the fact tht its true and look more around of ur friends or other girls out there and stop it for urself, or just ignore this messege and get hurt all the time with just.. in the end having to think tht tht was all meaningless.. but sister, plz think more carefully for youself... u can contact me directly if ud lyk, im always open :)
you will find another guy love :) and you will forget him eventually.
i know you dont want to hear it but these things take time. focus on you're hobbies or school. forget about guys for a bit :)
and when you do find another guy make sure he is the one (if you get this sensitive over sex) before you jump into bed with him :)
fell hard for a guy for the first time. i know it all sounds corny like in books but yeah im sure loads of you have been there, i didnt fall in love, but i could of done, i liked him that much.
never feelt like it
but
we ended the other day.
i was close to a guy before him, who for 3 years weve been friends now but more before i was with this guy.
now weve split up
nothing feels right. my mind keeps flicking back to him, thoughts about him, every single day. i miss him. its nothing too bad at first it was bloody awful. but not im coping.
why does it feel like
i cant feel right with any other guy without him popping up
i lost my virginity to him
i cant imagine sleeping with any other guy, even the one i thought i would lose it to.
close to him 2 years before that, didnt lose it to him.. yet a month in i did with my ex. he seemed right. i didnt even think about it, and i have nor regrets at all. but i imagine me sleepin with another guy
but my ex popping back to mind,,
i reaaally liked him, hence why i let him go
but
is this usual? dont tell me its normal we all go through it. any detailed ways of telling me please :// ?
will this pass? i dont think i was in love. but i never realised how much i know about him, how blind i was, till now.. or is that the process of falling? cause i dont feel in so much pain i need him , i just feel attached still.
will this get easier?
we were so close, yet only spent once twice a week together, for up to 27hours at a time.. he was 20 im 17.. hmm. please help
MY MIND keeps going back to how intense sex was etc, how meaningful and right it felt, and how close we were, i dont regret it at all, i just miss what we had and that was a way of knowing how deep it was. get me ?Why do i feel like this ? please help - heartbreak after breakup?
THIS WILL PASS, DARLING. Don't worry. Hang in there... There's always a rainbow after the rain.
I know you will think that you'll never get over your ex because your mind would go back to the great sex you had with him and all. I know that it was very meaningful to you given the fact that you gave your valuable purity to him, but you have to know that maybe he was just not meant for you. Everything happens for a reason. There are a lot of things that could help you get over him in no time. Try to distract you mind with new approaches. Maybe a rebound guy is too new for you, or you're just not ready yet. How about hanging out and chilling with your girlfriends %26amp; family? Have fun and don't spend your days in your room thinking how you and him could have been now. You have to stop that sooner or later. The right man for you is out there somewhere. It will just take a little more time for you to realize that. Be strong, girl.Why do i feel like this ? please help - heartbreak after breakup?
Because you were in love with him. You loved him and it HURTS to lose that. Especially. ESPECIALLY. since you lost your virginity to him. That always deeply connects you to a person.
These love stories are the saddest. I am going through one right now.
I'm sorry, I wish I could tell you of something that would relieve the pain.
I lol'd at he was 20 and your 17. Why does that happen so much? Makes me sad.
Anyway what you are feeling is attachment. I can tell he was your first big fall, that you really really liked. It does happen to everyone but not often. Chances are out of all the filth you're used to he was a gold puzzle piece that just didn't fit right. So he was good and all that, but you have to get over him and find the next one.
You were starting to get used to him and when you lose someone that you've did a lot with, you start missing them bunches. It just happened to me the other day. And the only thing you can do is think about all the bad things that happened and try your best to not think about the good times because if you do, it makes it 10 times worse. I wish you luck :
|Don't you notice?
After tht guy said, i guess, flowery stuff to u, and after commiting such thing, u broke up (or *he left u?) It just sounds lyk a game tht tht person played on u, just for his desire..
u no, iv herd alot of girls in the same situation as u, and they all ended up the same.. or were dumped in the same way after commiting the thing u were talking bout..
u no, girls don recognize to these kinds of things as much.. they r naive to themselves, thts why they let these things happen to them, humiliating themselves, and hurt themselves in the end... its usually always women or girls.. well there shudnt be usually but, its always girls side to get tricked and dumped and hurt a lot.. the boyz don care, theyre in fact satisfied bcuz they had their desires fulfilled.. and its up to u whether u want to wake up to the fact tht its true and look more around of ur friends or other girls out there and stop it for urself, or just ignore this messege and get hurt all the time with just.. in the end having to think tht tht was all meaningless.. but sister, plz think more carefully for youself... u can contact me directly if ud lyk, im always open :)
you will find another guy love :) and you will forget him eventually.
i know you dont want to hear it but these things take time. focus on you're hobbies or school. forget about guys for a bit :)
and when you do find another guy make sure he is the one (if you get this sensitive over sex) before you jump into bed with him :)
How did you deal with your first real breakup?
im 17 years old and ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, he was my first boyfriend and we broke up about a week ago, he changed, isnt the same person he was in the beginning and i was tired of dealing with it, so i was forced to break up with him because i didnt want to be put through his crap anymore....
ive been so good and hiding my emotions but as our friends start finding out it gets harder... im so heartbroken and i cry so much when im alone cause i just cant believe after everything we've been through he could be so careless of me and stop loving me
it hurts so badd and i need to know how you coped with it??
how you got through it? it feels impossible to get over.
i feel terrible
How did you deal with your first real breakup?
it hurts when you break up. you have lost a big part of your daily life. You will get over this and it will make you strong. Try to think about what was good and take that with you to the next relationship. It is great that you know what you want and not to settle for anything less. Feel better.How did you deal with your first real breakup?
I didn't handle it real well. I just got depressed, moped around the house and cried a lot.
I wrote some poetry about it, but the poetry really sucked.
After a few months I started viewing girls I met as ';possibilities'; and suddenly everything was okay.
Hey im 15 and i delt with mine first break up with taking my mine off of my girlfriend. I figured i had to move on. there is someone out there for everyone so i figured she wasnt the one. I did things i like to do and talked it over with some close friends. but i got over it and u will too so hang in there ok. i wish u the best!
will i had my first b friend when i went to vacations at mexico it turn out thet he is my 3rd cousin i broke up with him after i knew he was my cousin i didn't care i just call my cousin to tell him it is over
Well its going to be hard for a while but just try not to be alone and spend time with friends. That's will make you not think of him. Plus there's always more guys! :0)
that life
life isn't fare get used to that
plus ur young yull find someone else hes a jerk
nd u should never cry over guys it wont do nothing it just makes u look stupid
Iam also 17 and im still dealing with my first boyfriend...They change my boyfriend has chaged he is carless of my thoughts and often is mean to me..I do cry often and im depressed always..and a word of advice be so thankful that u got out of your sistuation cause they wont change back to who they are in the begging! Dont go back to him thats the biggest mistake take it from someone who knows. U should try and date other people and who knows in the end maybe something good will come out of you and your ex. Or then agin you could find someone who will mean much more to you and treat you the way you need to be treated.
ive been so good and hiding my emotions but as our friends start finding out it gets harder... im so heartbroken and i cry so much when im alone cause i just cant believe after everything we've been through he could be so careless of me and stop loving me
it hurts so badd and i need to know how you coped with it??
how you got through it? it feels impossible to get over.
i feel terrible
How did you deal with your first real breakup?
it hurts when you break up. you have lost a big part of your daily life. You will get over this and it will make you strong. Try to think about what was good and take that with you to the next relationship. It is great that you know what you want and not to settle for anything less. Feel better.How did you deal with your first real breakup?
I didn't handle it real well. I just got depressed, moped around the house and cried a lot.
I wrote some poetry about it, but the poetry really sucked.
After a few months I started viewing girls I met as ';possibilities'; and suddenly everything was okay.
Hey im 15 and i delt with mine first break up with taking my mine off of my girlfriend. I figured i had to move on. there is someone out there for everyone so i figured she wasnt the one. I did things i like to do and talked it over with some close friends. but i got over it and u will too so hang in there ok. i wish u the best!
will i had my first b friend when i went to vacations at mexico it turn out thet he is my 3rd cousin i broke up with him after i knew he was my cousin i didn't care i just call my cousin to tell him it is over
Well its going to be hard for a while but just try not to be alone and spend time with friends. That's will make you not think of him. Plus there's always more guys! :0)
that life
life isn't fare get used to that
plus ur young yull find someone else hes a jerk
nd u should never cry over guys it wont do nothing it just makes u look stupid
Iam also 17 and im still dealing with my first boyfriend...They change my boyfriend has chaged he is carless of my thoughts and often is mean to me..I do cry often and im depressed always..and a word of advice be so thankful that u got out of your sistuation cause they wont change back to who they are in the begging! Dont go back to him thats the biggest mistake take it from someone who knows. U should try and date other people and who knows in the end maybe something good will come out of you and your ex. Or then agin you could find someone who will mean much more to you and treat you the way you need to be treated.
How to cope with break up?
i have been the shoulders for many people during there breakups i cannot believe one day this will happen to me. my ex and i had been together for almost three years. from the get go i knew we are too different but he convinced me that he wasn't what i and his friends thought he was. we dated and moved in together. fights started a few months later about insensitivities and inconsiderations. but we managed to talked through them and figured out ways to try to avoid feelings being hurt and etc. long story short, we got a house together beginning of the year. at the same time i also quit my well paying job to school full time. we agreed that he will take care of the finance until i get my degree which is summer next year. things started going down hill after that. he started going out and do things without me. we hardly talked. last week labor weekend he broke up with me claiming that he couldn't be himself when he is with. my problem is what is himself. i was an open book when i got with him. he on the other hand put on a mask and toward the end the mask fell off. he demands time to himself and his friends. he thinks my demand to be treated a little better than his friends is unreasonable and blah blah blah. i was stunned. he dismissed me just like that. he asked me to make a list of things i will take and a date of when i am going to be moving out. i asked him what about all the decisions that we made together that ultimately alters my life. he left me without job, income, and place to live. well to be fair he said that if i need money go get a job and i do have a roof at my mom's. at the worst possible point of the relationship he was calm and collective. he asks me to sign over the deed of the house. i almost did but my family came to my rescue. they take me in and help me see what a piece of work he is. besides the legality of property and such...almost three year relationship is hard to get over. anyone has any advice? i read bunch of stuff online about pampering myself and such but i have no money to do so. anyone know of any group or association that i could join and get my mind off of things. i am at the point of going to depression but i am so close to getting my degree. i hate to waste all the efforts that i put into it but it is so hard to study and enjoy my year of internship...please help!!!!!!!!!How to cope with break up?
You had mentioned in the beginning of this that you had been there for others. I say call up your girlfriends and guyfriends and movie nights. Have everyone bring a snack or drink. You could also have game nights have everyone bring their favorite games. If you guys are open to making fools out of yourselves there is a great game called
Hilarium. (sp?).
My roomate and I are both in college and not well off as well and these seem to be the best things for price and fun. Since thanksgiving is coming up too another thing is you can have a friends get together for that too and have everyone bring something. Same with Christmas. Holidays can be the worst so it helps to have friends near by. Granted you do not have to do these ON the actual holiday but around it.
The whole story sounds horrible. I am sorry you had to go through that. But whatever you do try not to let him ruin the rest of your life...again. What I mean is make sure you focus on school you are almost done. Whenever you feel like you are dealing with too much take a bath. You don't have to go to a spa to relax.
I hope this helps. Good luckHow to cope with break up?
always keep in mind that they do not deserve you....
you are meant for someone you just hvnt seen him yet.....
Your still in School and there will be plenty of guys for you. Relationships are hard and if he can't accept what your doing to try to better yourself than he wasn't worth it to begin with. Hod your head up high and don't let him bother you even if you see him on the street somewhere. Smile and move on.
I've been there and I know it's painful but you will get through it
Good luck
me and my boyfriend broke up to after 3 years it was hard but you need to just get over it go out with your friends have funn to stuff you never got to do when you were with him.me and my boyfriend got back together maybe you will too.and yess you should be treated way better than any of his friends.
You had mentioned in the beginning of this that you had been there for others. I say call up your girlfriends and guyfriends and movie nights. Have everyone bring a snack or drink. You could also have game nights have everyone bring their favorite games. If you guys are open to making fools out of yourselves there is a great game called
Hilarium. (sp?).
My roomate and I are both in college and not well off as well and these seem to be the best things for price and fun. Since thanksgiving is coming up too another thing is you can have a friends get together for that too and have everyone bring something. Same with Christmas. Holidays can be the worst so it helps to have friends near by. Granted you do not have to do these ON the actual holiday but around it.
The whole story sounds horrible. I am sorry you had to go through that. But whatever you do try not to let him ruin the rest of your life...again. What I mean is make sure you focus on school you are almost done. Whenever you feel like you are dealing with too much take a bath. You don't have to go to a spa to relax.
I hope this helps. Good luckHow to cope with break up?
always keep in mind that they do not deserve you....
you are meant for someone you just hvnt seen him yet.....
Your still in School and there will be plenty of guys for you. Relationships are hard and if he can't accept what your doing to try to better yourself than he wasn't worth it to begin with. Hod your head up high and don't let him bother you even if you see him on the street somewhere. Smile and move on.
I've been there and I know it's painful but you will get through it
Good luck
me and my boyfriend broke up to after 3 years it was hard but you need to just get over it go out with your friends have funn to stuff you never got to do when you were with him.me and my boyfriend got back together maybe you will too.and yess you should be treated way better than any of his friends.
Has anyone ever had a relationship end because of someone else interfering, thus causing it to end?
Any advice on how to cope?
(In my case, she was flirting with him three days before the break-up.) And denies it all to me (the guy) at the breakup.) And I didn't know until the day after. also, they went out two days after, our breakup. and it seems like its going strong for two months. do you guys think it's going to end?Has anyone ever had a relationship end because of someone else interfering, thus causing it to end?
You never know with these things. But im sure if you move on she will probably be jealous.Has anyone ever had a relationship end because of someone else interfering, thus causing it to end?
Ya.. It may. Coz., she may get another guy and she can leave this guy na.,
(In my case, she was flirting with him three days before the break-up.) And denies it all to me (the guy) at the breakup.) And I didn't know until the day after. also, they went out two days after, our breakup. and it seems like its going strong for two months. do you guys think it's going to end?Has anyone ever had a relationship end because of someone else interfering, thus causing it to end?
You never know with these things. But im sure if you move on she will probably be jealous.Has anyone ever had a relationship end because of someone else interfering, thus causing it to end?
Ya.. It may. Coz., she may get another guy and she can leave this guy na.,
How do I deal with this breakup?
Hi there, I hope someone can help me, I met a fantastic guy about a year ago and we have been hopelessy in love ever since. Im 40 years old and have never in my life felt so loved, respected and happy. The guy involved is Italian and has two children that moved to Italy with his ex some 6 months ago. He has been visiting every month or so, but not as often as he liked due to work / money problems. We had an argument a few weeks ago and booked a one way flight back to Italy telling me that I was the only thing that had kept him here. We made up before he left and he told me that he would be back as soon as he could sort out his finances (a month or so) He rang me every day for the first week or so and he was seriosuly unhappy as the ex had not been coping to good with his boys, and he was worried about leaving them again, on Monday he rang me and basically told me that although I am the love of his life he cannot come back as the kids need him too much, I am devastedHow do I deal with this breakup?
I wouldn't follow Kc idea to become a stalker. How do you feel about moving over there? He sounds honest enough, I doubt he could bring the children out of the country if the mother still lives there, and so I don't think he is just feeding you a line, so you have to decide what is more important, him, or the rest of your life? Family, friends etc... Then if you think you could make the move, contact him and suggest it.
If not, or if he doesn't come across as overjoyed by the suggestion, then I'm sorry, but you just have the long hard road to getting over it to walk down, and there is no real advice, other than you're not the only person making that walk, but we all get by in the end.How do I deal with this breakup?
Could you take a few days holiday from work? Then you should go and have a look at what is happening. I wouldn't say that I was coming, just book your hotel room, and make sure you have his address and all that and go and see for yourself.
You can either wait, let go, or get all the facts before you make a decision. Who knows, you might want to live in Italy! Good luck!xxx
Offer to move to Italy to be with him and see what his response is. Even if you couldn't possibly go it'll give you an insight as to how he really feels. Based on what you've typed I think there's something fishy going on, are you sure his ex is really his ex and there isn't still something more between them? Even if the truth isn't what you'd hoped for then at least you can get on with your life knowing it's really over.
sorry to hear this but as you know life goes on and you must get over this so be strong for your own sake and forget himas he has gone back to his wife
Whether he is lying or not doesn't really matter. He has decided he doesn't want to be with you and you need to accept that and get on with your life.
Don't be bitter, but take the attitude, 'a well it was good while it lasted.'
That way you can put it down to experience and get on with your life.
I know this is hard for you (if you really are the love of his life) but his children do need him. He (if he is being honest) sounds very responsible.
I would try to talk him into returning with his children. If he really loves you, he will try to find a way to do that instead of making excuses as to why he can't.
If he suggests ways: he's telling the truth.
If he says he can't leave and gives you a list of reasons: he's lying to you.stars myspace trojan
I wouldn't follow Kc idea to become a stalker. How do you feel about moving over there? He sounds honest enough, I doubt he could bring the children out of the country if the mother still lives there, and so I don't think he is just feeding you a line, so you have to decide what is more important, him, or the rest of your life? Family, friends etc... Then if you think you could make the move, contact him and suggest it.
If not, or if he doesn't come across as overjoyed by the suggestion, then I'm sorry, but you just have the long hard road to getting over it to walk down, and there is no real advice, other than you're not the only person making that walk, but we all get by in the end.How do I deal with this breakup?
Could you take a few days holiday from work? Then you should go and have a look at what is happening. I wouldn't say that I was coming, just book your hotel room, and make sure you have his address and all that and go and see for yourself.
You can either wait, let go, or get all the facts before you make a decision. Who knows, you might want to live in Italy! Good luck!xxx
Offer to move to Italy to be with him and see what his response is. Even if you couldn't possibly go it'll give you an insight as to how he really feels. Based on what you've typed I think there's something fishy going on, are you sure his ex is really his ex and there isn't still something more between them? Even if the truth isn't what you'd hoped for then at least you can get on with your life knowing it's really over.
sorry to hear this but as you know life goes on and you must get over this so be strong for your own sake and forget himas he has gone back to his wife
Whether he is lying or not doesn't really matter. He has decided he doesn't want to be with you and you need to accept that and get on with your life.
Don't be bitter, but take the attitude, 'a well it was good while it lasted.'
That way you can put it down to experience and get on with your life.
I know this is hard for you (if you really are the love of his life) but his children do need him. He (if he is being honest) sounds very responsible.
I would try to talk him into returning with his children. If he really loves you, he will try to find a way to do that instead of making excuses as to why he can't.
If he suggests ways: he's telling the truth.
If he says he can't leave and gives you a list of reasons: he's lying to you.
Friend casting doubt on my relationship to make herself feel better after a nasty breakup--how to handle?
I have a friend, L, living abroad. Few months ago, I was visiting her and met a guy, B. We spoke frequently over email, and on my return saw a lot of each other. We both see the potential for love and future, especially since I happen to be studying abroad not far from him next year. The friend I have to thank for my meeting him just broke up with her boyfriend as I was on my flight back. I've spent a lot of time consoling her; I'm her friend and I'm glad to help, but her ways of coping are hurtful. B was a flirt and a playboy. He told me this straight out and that he has no interest in doing it anymore because he respects me. I trust him. L seems to delight in bringing it up, disguised as concern that I'll be hurt, offering to keep her eye on him while I'm at home. I find it hurtful that she brings it up, as if making sure I know that while her love life isn't great, mine is worse. I'm getting sick of talking to her b/c she has nothing to say, and I was wondering if anyone had advice?Friend casting doubt on my relationship to make herself feel better after a nasty breakup--how to handle?
She obviously doesn't sound like a true friend. He seems unsure of himself as well. Get on with your life, meet new friends and Im sure the right guy will come a long for you. You don't need friends like that in your life.
She obviously doesn't sound like a true friend. He seems unsure of himself as well. Get on with your life, meet new friends and Im sure the right guy will come a long for you. You don't need friends like that in your life.
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